Have a little fun together in 10 easy steps

We recently came back from a road trip to Hokkaido, Japan.  Before we went, we made sure to bring along a DSLR and a camera stand, which I borrowed from my sister.  We are not experts at using the Canon DSLR, but I am quite pleased with how the photos we took came out, and received compliments about them.  So I am excited to share these tips here, which could double/triple up as a second/third pre-wedding photoshoot which you can try out as well.  The experience will be a rewarding one, not because of the WHAT (beautiful photos captured), but more than that, because of the HOW, the whole process of interpreting your private times together as a couple.  This will be a very fulfilling time I promise, so let it all go and have some fun!

HOW TO HAVE SOME FUN TOGETHER

Here is how we did it.

Step 1: Be colour-coordinated and matchy in a subtle way in your attire and accessories.  You could consider having matching boots and leather jackets.  You could also work out a theme according to the places you would be going.  Add in some flowery or lacy prints for the lady so that the picture pops when being edited, and bright colours for the guy such as PINK so that he looks different and yet the same.  The idea is to create a casual and effortless style that still looks good.

Step 2: Groom yourself.  For the ladies, this means well blown hair and some natural make up.  If you are not big on make up, put on an eye-popping lip colour such as bright red or pink.  Refrain from bright orange or coral unless you are sure you have a perfect set of extremely white teeth.  For the guys, this means your hairdo and the way you wear your clothes, be stylish about it, have a balance between looking neat and yet messy enough to show that you are comfortable in your own skin.

Step 3: Look up the photos taken by professionals for inspiration on the poses to take. Facebook, Instagram and Pinterest have made available tonnes of portfolios online.  There are many wedding online sites available as well.

Step 4: Have an eye for picturesque landscape or scene that you are able to work with, be it mountains, or a quaint little cafe. You could also consider going to an ULU place; this means going to a secluded place to take all the crazy shots you want.  It was great in Hokkaido because of the vast stretches of land and sights to take it and we already had an itinerary planned out.  Do a little research on the places which would be great backdrops to your photos before you set out.  But have a bit of an adventure streak in you; be sure to check out all the available spots at a location before moving on.  Ours paid off after we wandered into a little church off the grounds of our hotel in Nidom.

Step 5: Get the creative juices flowing.  Look out for items you could add on, such as ice cream or an umbrella, or even in the middle of a meal, to make your interaction in the photo more lively.  You could keep it as a lifestyle shot, or if you prefer, you could also set up a more elaborate set up with pre-prepared props.  We got our items at the places of our shoots, whether ice cream at a shop, umbrella from the hotel, dandelions on the grass, and a random rainbow in the sky.  There was even a time when we witnessed an intimate moment between two deer, and if not for the fact that there were other people in the vicinity, would have created a double intimate set of photos with the deer, haha!

Step 6: Set up the camera and stand.  Select the 10 shots timer for your camera, or whatever number of shots your camera allows you.  I would recommend selecting the highest number of shots available because you will only be able to select one or two, or if you are lucky, a handful of, worthy photos to look at.  Experiment with the height and the resultant different shots that you can obtain.  Experiment with the distance between you and the camera.  Through many tries.  I repeat.  Many many tries.  It will be tiring, but very fun.

Step 7: Be natural. Forget about the camera save for two points.  First, make sure one of you runs to the camera to ensure that you are in the desired area of the picture frame and then click to start the timer.  Second, if you want to take a distance shot, always make sure no one at the back steals your camera.  Once you have addressed these two points, go on and have some fun.  Do what you want to, as a couple having some private fun.  The way you usually show your cheeky or loving ways.  Just be yourself.  Do it in fast or slow motion, depending on your camera settings.  If you are lucky, you may even capture a series of shots capturing a little love story line (see below for an example).

Step 8:  Check the shots taken on the spot.  If you are not happy with the shots, take another round of shots.  Repeat Step 8 until you are satisfied with your shots.

Step 9: When you get home, select a limited set of photos from each “theme”. This will make viewing your photos a refreshing rather than a boring one. This means selecting different photos capturing different interactions, different moods, different lighting, different angles/frames, etc.
The exception is when you have captured a series of photos capturing a story line, as mentioned in Step 7.

Step 10: After selecting the photos you want, it is time to edit the photos.  This is a step that cannot be missed out.  I used Photoscape.  As I am not an expert in photo editing, I shall leave you to explore your own photo editing tools.  The general direction of my editing style was to follow my own instincts.  Depending on how you edit your photos, the mood in the photo may change, and it could be for the better as well.

After completing the 10 steps above, we obtained a set of photos we were proud to call our own.

To love and to cherish

To love and to cherish

Hi there, wanna be friends?

Hi there, wanna be friends?

Our little nest in Hokkaido

Our little nest in Hokkaido

How's the tea I made? (Actually, he made it)

How’s the tea I made? (Actually, he made it)

One umbrella is better than two, all the better to snuggle close together

One umbrella is better than two, all the better to snuggle close together

You make me melt

You make me melt

Him: Did you wash your hair?

Him: Did you wash your hair?

Feed me a bite please

Feed me a bite please

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Caught the fluffy dandelions!

Caught the fluffy dandelions!

You and me, inseparable.

You and me, inseparable.

You are my rainbow.

You are my rainbow.

Bonded for life.

Bonded for life.

Frolicking in the gardens.

Frolicking in the gardens.

The best part of this picture?  It was off the road, down a little river hidden from above, and I thankfully tripped over a branch, which made the photo so much more livelier!

The best part of this picture? It was off the road, down a little river hidden from above, and I thankfully tripped over a branch, which made the photo so much more livelier!

Love pinching his chubby cheeks!

Love pinching his chubby cheeks!

So heavy!

So heavy!

Two hoots are better than one.

Two hoots are better than one.

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And to end it off, here is the little love story we captured before the cross in the little church we chanced upon.

So fate brought us together..

So fate brought us together..

And when you muster the courage to take the first move...

And when you muster the courage to take the first move…

Amazing things happen!

Amazing things happen!

Wow! I’ve missed this blog!

It’s been ages since I last updated due the wedding preparations and settling down in our new flat.  We are happily customarily married since Dec 2011! I would love to share more about the preparations and tips/lessons I learnt both during the preparations leading up to and the actual day itself when I find the time to.  Even after completing this whole wedding planning event, I catch myself still gazing through wedding sites and magazines, sometimes secretly thinking “damn I should have gone for this instead!”

Nonetheless, I am thankful that my customary wedding went without a hitch. Will update soon if time permits.

No wedding planner? How!

Here is how we did/are completing our wedding preparations.

First, the most important thing is to set your expectations and budget. For us, it was mostly about meeting my dream wedding at the hub’s tolerated budget. It’s not easy, we have gone for overkill for certain items such as photography, but saved on others such as the favors and cards and whats not. In particular, here was how we went about planning blindly:

Hotel: Seriously, do you even need a wedding planner for this? Save it! Do your research online, lug the hubs around, and attend as many wedding shows as you like to. It’s a time to bond and to engage in couple discussion.

Theme: If the hubs and guests are game enough, you could have a helluva fun of a wedding. My hubs is more traditional, so no real theme to play around with besides our ROM on the Little Mermaid. So you happen to have a separate ROM, and don’t want to have the hassle of planning a themed banquet with 300 over guests, have one for the ROM (with 30 guests)!

Flowers: Choose the colour combination, theme (if applicable) and the extent of the elaborated decorations which you want/had seen in the magazines. Chances are that most florists (unless you pay) would recommend the usual flowers and style, so you would have to do your due diligence. 

Wedding favors: Go to Bangkok and source cheaply. Or be like us, who will be choosing the best options that are available from the hotel, and package them differently so that they look like our personalised wedding favors.

Cake: Spend thousands on a real 5 tier cake and have the guests filled to the brim with your wedding cake? Not a good idea, unless you are only serving cake or have the money to spare. We opted for a small two tier for the ROM instead, together with the theme, and will be going ahead with the dummy cake which the hotel is going to provide. You can always play around with flowers to decorate the cake.

JieMeis and XiongDis: How many to choose? For us, we decided to have a big team of 8 each. This allows for a larger crowd to heighten the atmosphere, more hands to spare and more tasks to clear! You would also be able to include more close friends to share this once in a life experience together with you.

Emcees: Who to choose? Nope, not the JieMeis or XiongDis for us. They would already have been dead beat by the night, having had to endure the whole day with us! Instead, we found other friends to help out!

Car: Go for a dream car which you know you would never in your lifetime get!

Cards: I would have loved to have a themed invitation card together with the decorations, but from the experience at the ROM, I realise that people do not really bother about the cards! Nice they would look in the photo (if the photographer remembers to snap a shot of it), otherwise, what a waste they would be. I have friends who also tell me to save the Earth and just inform them verbally! But of course, we couldn’t resist personalising the cards a little still.

Just a little sharing from the above that it seems like most of the wedding preps can be done so simply and yet can cost you a limb or two when wedding planners enter the picture. I do wish I had the luxury of engaging one, but I have also been advised that a wedding is, after all, not a show that you put up, but rather, a celebratory dinner which the people whom you know will be happy for you, will be there to cheer for you, and not merely the decorations which you put up for them. So just for those of us who are unable to engage one, just enjoy the process of being able to plan a huge event together, and enjoy the fruits of your labour thereafter. 🙂

Another photoshoot!

This Friday! We aren’t strangers to photoshoots, having done a couple before already, heehee! While I have not learnt from previous sessions that I am supposed to research for outdoor venues, prepare photoworthy killer heels etc, I shall make do with whatever we have. Nails have been growing out, making my manicure look crappy, but it should look fine from afar. Have also heard advice not to waste money going for waxing etc because truth be told, the photos wouldn’t show! HAHA.

Now you know the things you can get away with for a photoshoot!

Now I am wondering whether we should go ahead with soft toys, balloons and other oldies. Dear seems to find them crappy, but then, to each his own, I personally think it would look quite cute!

What to prepare for a photoshoot

– Lots of water – umbrella – wet wipes – flats – car – beautiful weather – tidbits – tissue – haversack – heels – gowns/suits – good mood – smiles – chemistry –

Of course, you will also need an awesome photographer and make up artiste!

Intercontinental Hotel

Our chosen venue. 

Headed down to their wedding show today.  On display were several themes available, of which three are the resident themes which I presume have been more popular than the two which were replaced by two weird looking new ones.  Make a guess from the photos below! I intend to work the fairytale theme to fit my intended wedding theme! 

The wedding suites available include the Executive Suite and the Shophouse Suite.  The former is a spacious but age old suite available for 1 night, while the latter is newly renovated and available for 2 nights but very stingy with space.     

 

Mermaid dream

I’m looking to tailor a Cheongsam for my tea ceremony.  With an elaborate long mermaid tail no less.  I’m so in love with the mermaid cut design but alas I am unlikely to have a suitable one as my evening gown.  So I improvised into looking for an MTM cheongsam!!

What is your favourite cut?  Are you willing to go through great lengths (and $$$) just for THE CUT?

It’s a tulle, no?

Ok, so I’ve decided to stick to my current bridal studio, and have finally chosen a reasonably dreamy-worthy wedding gown. I have to stop myself from researching any further, and learn to remain contended. When it comes to wedding preparations, I dare say most girls will become as insanely picky as me!

We have also been sourcing around for interior designers.  Not sure whether it will be a good starting point for people who have smaller budgets (not that we have alot), but it could also be more worthwhile to source for contractors instead.

But the main killing point is to renovate the house WHILE planning for the wedding. Sometimes I wished we did not set the two dates/periods so close together! Plan early for the future, and save up too! That’s the advice I would give at this moment in time.

Almost there~

By that, I mean we have finally settled on the bridal gown! It striked a fair balance between being simple yet graceful, with a wow effect! It has been a tiring journey these few months going back and forth with switching gowns and even possibly bridal studios.  Finally half the battle won. 

(From inference, you must have guessed correctly that I still have not confirmed the evening gown though. Bleah.)